I have realized one of the hardest things about living in a tiny space is owning sentimental items. If you are like me, you have a box (or two or three) of sentimental items. That hold yearbooks, baby books, photo albums, graduation caps, gifts from friends, travel mementos and scrapbooks. I have purged a lot of those items, but still seem to have some left. Another thing I run into is when the season changes, the summer clothes versus the winter clothes. I have a small armoire, I cannot fit all of the seasons within my allotted space.
Orders have slowed a bit before the holiday season starts up, so I had some down time the other day. I decided that I was going to tackle my ‘storage’ area in my house. By storage area, I am referencing the ‘shower’ area. There is not a shower in my place yet, so I was using the space for storing miscellany. I finally had had enough of staring at this pile of stuff every day since I moved in. It was the last remaining vestige of my things.
So, I tackled this corner with a bit of trepidation mixed with glee. What was hiding in this location anyway? Let me preface this by admitting that I am not that organized. After I condensed everything, I stared at the items I had left over, contemplating what I am going to do with them. I do not want to donate the pile I have sitting here to Goodwill. One of the items is a framed poster that I have been hauling around with me since I moved into my first apartment (a cute little studio apartment that was 440 square feet). My mother gave it to me, I love this poster but I have no wall it will fit on that is not already in use.
So this left me with a ‘To Donate’ and ‘Throw Away’ pile. The throw away pile was mostly cardboard boxes I was storing stuff in, but no longer needed because I condensed a number of things. That was really quite a relief, it means I had less junk than I thought. The ‘To Donate’ pile was also fairly small. However, that pile is harder for me to part with at this point. What I own has been condensed so much over time, that almost everything I own is because I use it, or I cherish it. Most of the time those two categories fall in line with one another at this stage.
What I found (in no particular order):
- My misplaced 2009 tax return
- A Nintendo Wii and Wii Fit (that I agreed to give to my father about 6 months ago)
- 3 paintings
- Dress shoes
- Some of my winter clothes
- TV trays
- A mirror
- A few gallon sized glass bottles I intended to use to make iced tea (which may have happened once or twice)
- Costuming
- Two small file accordions
- Some of my summer clothes I had been looking for (but not that hard apparently)
- A straw hat with leis attached (Hawaii)
- 2 small propane bottles (meant for a propane camp stove I haven’t owned in 2 years)
- Collectibles from my trip to the UK (I found my entry ticket to Buckingham Palace and my snowglobe from Stonehenge among them)
- A fruit bowl I hand painted (was supposed to give that to mom for Mother’s Day, d’oh!)
- A skillet I forgot I owned
- A strobe light
- Drawing and tracing paper
Jenny and Tiffy (pictured left) were over that day. Kass had recently gleaned a bunch of apples and those two were helping him cut them up so they could be juiced for some hard apple cider. Tiffy loves purple, dancing and is a fantastic artist. Because of this, she ended up with the framed poster, the drawing paper and the strobe light.
I then was sorting through more items that I was going to later give as gifts to friends for Christmas, or just because. Robyn once commented that she appreciates when I give her gifts, as she knows that if I am gifting her something at this stage of the game, that it has a large sentimental value to me. This happens to be quite true, though I had not really given it much thought prior to her mentioning that. Eowyn later said that she could understand my desire to give things to friends and not donate them to Goodwill. Because these items have a history, a story, or sentimental value because of who gave the item to me.
In the process of going through items, I ran into my snow globe of Stonehenge. I love that thing, but have never displayed it for fear of it getting broken. It is the only snow globe I have ever owned. I had only opened it to look at it twice since I acquired it. One of those times was at customs. I finally took the darn thing out of the box and stuck it on my kitchen table! It has filled me with joy since. I was wondering what the point of owning it if I was not enjoying it.
Thankfully, The Fortune Cookie is blissfully uncluttered and cozy again. I feel rather accomplished and happier.
My next order of business is updating my wardrobe a bit. I have been wearing most of the same clothes for 5 years or more. I am hitting the thrift stores to grab some new clothes, as my waistline is shrinking and my clothes are starting to get loose. This makes for a fun indoor activity as the weather is switching into wet mode here in Washington. Something tells me that after such an indian summer, that this Autumn and Winter are going to make up for it. What are some of your favorite indoor activities during the fall and winter?
~Kera








inspired as usuall.
My mom is an artist. As long as I can remember, she goes through her entire house a few times a year and gets rid of anything she hasn’t worn, or used, or appreciated in over a year. Her house seems so bare to a lot of people, but I always notice the things she keeps, like old friends, and occasionally something new and beautiful. And whenever someone says they like something in her house, she usually gifts it for their next birthday!
I love that Eowyn. I like the idea of a ‘bare’ house. There is freedom in having very few things. I have noticed things people love over the years of some of my things. As time passes I slowly am giving things away. I get joy from knowing that those cherished items then find a home with someone I cherish.
Great post! Good job and getting the job done! I am glad the snow globe is out and giving you joy! After thinking abou it I realized that “things” really are about 1: Being utilitarian or 2: Giving us joy. If they don’t fall into those two catagories, what’s the point? I have been looking around my house and looking at the things I love, but will not have room for in my tiny house and thinking about what I will do with them. Gifting of course will be the first order, but I know there will be things I cherish which won’t really be right for someone I know. I guess I will put it in the hands of the universe and trust that the right “owner” will present themselves,whether it be at Goodwill or somebody walking into my life. I have a beautiful lithograph given to me by the artist when I was her nanny, like your poster, there won’t be a wall big enough in my tiny abode. I can appreciate your thoughts and feelings about cherished belongings. Your post hit home and gave me a lot to reflect upon as well as some wonderful ideas! Winter is the time I really enjoy knitting, reading and making up new soup recipes. I wish I could say I really enjoy cleaning and sorting through my abundance of things! Maybe I can start a new tradition. Congratulations on the shrinkage!! May your days be happy, Valerie
Thanks Valerie! I agree! Things need to be utilitarian or give us joy (hopefully both if possible). When donating some of your things, I really recommend using Freecycle! I loved them for donating some of my things. People can just come pick them up from you, and it is a bit more personal than donating it to Goodwill if you’re looking for a bit more gratifying exchange.
I’m glad that I gave you some things to ponder. We are so attached to our things it seems. As you come to let that go, a whole new world opens up to you.
We turned one end of our table into back to back “desks” and are now in the sorting and organizing stage. It’s very liberating to just go ahead and designate that space as workspace, since that’s what it’s getting used for anyway. Now we each have a place for the accumulating paper/business stuff. I find keeping that part of my life organized is the most challenging.
Kudos to you, Kera! Have fun shopping today!
Kalina!
I love designating space to allow oneself to not be upset about utilizing it for that purpose. I need to designate a workspace, but mine ends up being a lot more fluid which I have come to accept. As time passes I will accumulate the storage/seating I want and I will better be able to organize my space. I’m hoping to get a couple military trunks. One for paperwork, one for hair and both for seating. It would make my life way easier.
I had a blast shopping.
I love that line “what’s the point of owning it if I was not enjoying it?” I inherited a dining room table and china cabinet that had been in my mom’s family for 4 generations. The first time my sister came to my house after I moved it in she said in a tone as if I were committing a crime “I can’t believe that you are actually eating at this table!” We only used it for special occasions (twice a year) when we were kids. To which I told her “Up in heaven there is a little old man dancing for joy that someone is finally using this table as he meant it to be used.”